Allie, Court, and Darcey in the back yard.
Grandpa and Zoe playing in the leaves.
We got to get out of these things!
Court and Zoe back in the leaves.
Grandpa resting up for the next big game of pool.
Allie and Zoe with spoils from the "candy store."
Guess who?
Darcey and the tired "ear rub."
Kitchen fun!
More Kitchen fun!
The cars . . . the Hazard's gray one and the Hargraves white one.
Haley, Courtney, and Griffin at the Science Museum in Oklahoma City.
Lunch at the science museum with Grandma, Ash, Zoe, and Patton.
So, there you have some pictures. We did so many things and only took a few pictures, but it was sooooooo fun. We'll have to do it again some time.
I gave a talk last Sunday titled "Look Up and Remember". Here it is:
Look Up And Remember
I grew up in
San Jose California. We lived about 30
miles from Santa Cruz, which was a sleepy little beach town. At Santa Cruz, there was a boardwalk with the
best, most rickety wooden roller coaster ever, a carousel where you could throw
metal rings into a giant clown mouth, bumper cars and other fun stuff. Then, there was our favorite place . . . the
beach. It was always crowded.
One of my
first memories of the beach is when I was 4 or 5 years old. We drove the 30 miles over the Santa Cruz
Mountains and dropped down into the slumbering town of Santa Cruz. After parking, we walked across the boardwalk
and then we walked/ran about 100 yards across the hot sand, and although there
was a sea of people on the beach, We managed to find a spot close to the ocean
and set up “home base” for the day.
Which consisted of our towels, picnic, and other beach stuff.
I ran down
to the water, promising my mom I would be careful, and began to play the “don’t
get caught by the water game”. This is
where you get as close to the water as possible, then when a wave comes in you
run up the beach to avoid getting wet.
Then you follow the water as closely as possible without letting it
touch your feet as it retreats back into the ocean. Then the next wave comes and you do the same
thing. Up and down, down and up. Over and over again. I must have played this
game for a good half
hour before getting tired.
When I
turned to walk back to my towel and family . . . they were gone.
I ran up to
where I was sure they should be, but they were gone. I ran through all the many people up and down
the beach looking for my family, but they were nowhere to be seen. I was confused because I was pretty sure my
family loved me and wouldn’t leave without me.
But it was true. They were gone.
Then it
happened. I started to cry. I cried as I walked and ran aimlessly through
the crowd and across the sand in random directions. I suppose, believing I would never find my
family again, I was looking for a nice place to die.
I must’ve
looked pretty pitiful because a kind lady . . . a stranger . . . lifted me into
her arms and began to comfort me. I
cried louder. After all she was a
stranger.
But she was
kind and gentle. She said not to worry
and that we would find my mom, and then she started walking up the beach.
Now, I knew
I was lost, but I thought she was even more lost because she was walking in a
direction I would’ve never gone in. I kicked her
and tried to get away, but she held me tight and continued to talk softly and
comfort me.
Then suddenly, I saw my mom running towards us. The hand off
was made and my rescuer disappeared. I
started to think, wow, she was really nice and I wonder how she knew which way
to walk. I was glad I hadn’t succeeded
in kicking her away. My mom took me back
to our towels and family, and I was saved.
My mom
taught me that when I was playing on the beach I should look up often to make
sure I knew where our towels and family were.
She promised that if I did that, I would not get lost again.
I played on
the beach all the rest of the day. And,
she was right. I never got lost again.
I didn’t
understand how I could get so lost just by not looking up. It wasn’t until I was studying geology in
college that I learned the official term of what I had experienced. It’s called longshore drift. This is where waves hit the beach at an angle
and wash up as far as they can go, then the water returns to the sea by running
down the beach face by the shortest possible route, that is, straight downhill
. . . not back along the same path it came up in. The net effect of this motion is to move the
sand in a series of arcs along the beach face.
For example,
it’s estimated that 1,000,000 cubic yards of sand per year are moved southward
across the beach at Santa Monica California (Plumer, Physical Geology, page
343).
I was like a
piece of sand. By following the waves up
at an angle, then straight down over and over again, I had made my way down the
beach quite a distance from my family without even knowing it. I thought I was just going up and down in the
same spot, but I wasn’t. I was having so
much fun, I forgot to look up so I could continuously orient myself to where my
family was. In that process I got
lost. My family hadn’t moved. I had.
My family wasn’t lost. I
was.
I like to
compare that kind stranger lady who picked me up to the prophet. She knew where she was going. Even when I thought she was walking in
completely the wrong direction. Her
voice was gentle and sure even when I was furious and adamant. She knew, and she got me back to my
family.
I also like
to compare my family and our little home base on the beach to the temple. As I looked up often and consistently I was
able to keep my bearings and not get lost again.
Just like
the longshore drift I experienced. We
can sometimes get so preoccupied with our lives that we drift and don’t even
know it. Then, when we finally look up,
we wonder where we are.
As members
of the church, making and keeping covenants can help us avoid drifting like the
sand on the beach. We need to look up
often and consistently. One simple way
of “looking up” is to go to the temple frequently and regularly. There is safety in this, and it will help us
keep our eternal bearings.
I can’t think
of a greater blessing than to know where we came from before we were born, why
we are here on the earth, and where we are going after this life is
finished. These are things we are
reminded of in the temple.
Then we must
remember that the true blessings of our covenants come when we strive to live
accordingly. We keep our covenants every
day as we are kind, generous, and charitable.
We keep our covenants when we support one another in our challenges and
share in each others' joys and disappointments as if they were our own. We keep our covenants by loving one
another. When we do good things in small
and simple ways, we are keeping our covenants.
A covenant
is an agreement between God and a person.
The way it works is that Heavenly Father sets the conditions and we
agree to them (Bible Dictionary). Then,
we are the only ones who can break the covenant because our Heavenly Father is
bound when we do what we’ve agreed to.
In the Book of Mormon, Nephi says “My soul
delighteth in the covenants of the Lord . . .” (2nd Nph 11:5). I also delight in the covenants of the Lord
and here are five reasons why:
1. I delight in covenants because they bring me
Hope: Covenants provide hope for what is
to come. In D&C 84 the oath and
covenant of the Priesthood says that everything our Heavenly Father has will be
ours if we keep our covenants. That
brings me great hope.
When I think
of what our Heavenly Father has, I don’t think of a nice house, fast cars, or
trendy clothes that He could have if he wanted them. I think of the peace and understanding He has
that enables Him to love so perfectly.
2. I delight in covenants because they unify
us: Covenants bind the covenant makers
and keepers together as they pursue common goals. No matter where I go in the world, when I am
around covenant makers and keepers it brings me peace to know that we are all
seeking the same things.
3. I delight in covenants because they are
grounded in love: Heavenly Father loves
us. In President Monson’s words: “. . . your Heavenly Father loves you-each of
you. That love never changes. It is not influenced by your appearance, by
your possessions, or by the amount of money you have in your bank account. It is not changed by your talents and
abilities. It is simply there. It is there for you when you are sad or
happy, discouraged or hopeful. God’s
love is there for you whether or not you feel you deserve love. It is simply always there.”
How can we
express that love back to our Heavenly Father and Jesus? Covenant keeping provides a way for us to
express our love to our Heavenly Father and Jesus. To show our gratitude and appreciation for the
incomprehensible, infinite Atonement of our Savior and Redeemer and the perfect
love of our Father in Heaven. (Linda K. Burton.
Oct. 2013 General Conference).
4. I delight in covenants because they give me
purpose: When all is said and done, what
will matter to our Father in Heaven will be how well we have kept our covenants
and how much we have tried to follow the example of our Savior, Jesus
Christ. (Sister Linda Reeves, Oct. 2013
Conference).
5. I
delight in covenants because Covenant making and keeping can provide answers to
many questions like “what can make me happy?” All who have made sacred
covenants with the Lord and who honor those covenants are eligible to receive
personal revelation, to be blessed by the ministering of angels, and to commune
with God (Carole M. Stephens, Oct. General Conference 2013. Do We Know What We Have?) In her talk titled
“The Power, Joy, and Love of Covenant Keeping”, Sister Linda K. Burton reminds
us that making and keeping sacred covenants will lead us to happiness. President Monson taught “Sacred covenants are
to be revered by us, and faithfulness to them is a requirement for happiness.”
Baptism is
the symbol of our agreement to follow him by keeping His commandments. If we follow him and keep His commandments,
then He promises us the gift of the Holy Ghost that the spirit will always be
with us.
Then, as you
know, every week we get to take the sacrament to renew our covenant and remind
us of the blessings of keeping our baptismal covenant. “That we may have His spirit to be with us.”
In our most
recent General Conference, Sister Carole M. Stephens, First Counselor in the
Relief Society General Presidency said “Latter-day prophets and apostles have
taught that when we worthily partake of the sacrament, we can renew not only
our baptismal covenant but all covenants entered into with the Lord.” (Oct. 2013 General Conference. “Do We Know What We Have? By Carole M.
Stephens).
Our Heavenly
Father kept his promise when he sent his son to the earth as our savior. Jesus kept his promise as he completed the
work of the atonement for each one of us.
I know these promises were kept out of love. At this Christmas time, I am so thankful to
know that our Heavenly Father and His Son, Jesus Christ will always keep their
promises and will always love us.
I hope that
I can make and keep sacred promises to show my love for them. I hope I can remember to look up, to keep my
eternal bearings, and when I wander and lose my way to be humble enough to
allow myself to be rescued.
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